Tongues, Toys & Wet Sheets
I’d never met Ruth before today. We had only seen pictures and a few short videos of each other, so when she arrived on my doorstep that morning, I was delighted to see that she was even more attractive in person.
Welcome to a collection of real experiences from The Sensual Memoirs of Lacey Blackwood. Here, I share true stories that explore desire, connection, and the moments that challenge the boundaries we think we know. Each story is a peek into what it’s like to live life 'awake', to follow curiosity, and to embrace pleasure without shame. Come with me on this journey of honesty, choice, and a lot of mischief.
24 May 2026 12:02
I’d never met Ruth before today. We had only seen pictures and a few short videos of each other, so when she arrived on my doorstep that morning, I was delighted to see that she was even more attractive in person.
10 May 2026 10:06
We met Rick and Gill at the Hoedown Showdown house party in the middle of January. I felt an intense attraction to Rick from the moment we first met, and having a taste of his flogging skills left me desperate for a full and proper session with him. He had such a strong, sexy and dominant aura, it was almost irresistible to me. This was partly because I’m used to being the most confident person in the room, and his energy not only matched mine but exceeded it. That’s a rare find for me, and I wasn’t going to pass up the chance to have some fun with him. I just knew it would be intense, for me at least. Hopefully, for him too.
16 Apr 2026 10:28
I didn’t know how tonight was going to go, but I didn’t expect it to be so absolutely and completely fucking fabulous. We had stayed in touch with Nael and Annie from the ‘Get Fucked’ event at Townhouse in early December last year, as had our friends Ivar and Thyra, and seeing as we enjoyed each other's company so much last time, we wanted to try something a little more private for our second group meet. An Airbnb was arranged, a detached house with three double bedrooms, three bathrooms, a hot tub, and a fully equipped kitchen, perfect for what we had planned.
5 Apr 2026 13:19
We’d been wanting to try a private party for a while—for the experience—but we’d also been warned about the risks. Things like drinks being spiked or hosts having hidden cameras around the property were enough to make us hesitate. I mentioned it to a fellow swinger at the club one evening, and she didn’t dismiss our concerns at all. “You’re absolutely right to be wary of private parties,” she said, “but we’ve been to one ourselves, and it’s fantastic.” She spoke highly of the host and reassured me that it had a great reputation before giving us their Fab username.
29 Mar 2026 15:24
Tonight, I felt more excited than usual before one of our outings. We were meeting our Viking friends, Ivar and Thyra—two people I have a particular soft spot for. Even if nothing happened between us, I would’ve been just as happy simply seeing them again. There’s something about them that stirs something in me; their energy just seems to match mine so effortlessly, and I always enjoy being around them.
15 Mar 2026 12:53
I was extremely nervous about going alone and almost decided not to go at all. But I’ve always had a strong habit of pushing my boundaries and stepping outside my comfort zone, because I don’t like the idea of my life being limited or controlled by my fears or emotions. As I made the forty-minute drive to the club alone, I could feel the anxiety building in my chest, tight and fluttering, but I wouldn’t allow it to stop me from attending tonight’s women-only event and getting stuck in.
8 Mar 2026 14:59
I first asked my husband to try swinging with me about two and a half years ago. His answer at the time was a firm no.